never go to bed angry

I was always told to never go to bed angry because when you wake up the feelings will still be there and you might grow this kind of resentment towards them. and some people believe that, but only because they hear it a lot so they think it is true. studies has shown it is not. when you sleep after being hurt, heartbroken, or just plain mad, you are just preserving your emotions. you are not hiding them or building them up, you are just saving them for another time. some people even say they cant sleep during the night when something bad happens. and that is because them thoughts are there just wondering through your head. I'm still not saying it is good because it is not. i believe you should speak your mind to make your self feel better and to get stuff off of your chest so the person you have a conflict with knows what is really wrong and if he or she really cares they will try to fix it. even if they don't try to fix it get it off your chest anyway. it will make you feel better and you will not have them thoughts in your head and you will not have to go to bed angry. but eventually you will have to talk about what is upsetting you because if not you are going to blow up.

young teenagers in love

When you are in a relationship, you want to express your love and show that you really care about your partner. you want to show that you are all for them and nobody else. usually it is just the simple things like holding your hand or posting things on your (facebook)wall. but teenagers have been taking it to further and risky heights. some have been sharing password, letting their partner read their text messages and also having no limits to a relationship. that is not good because when you have no limits in a relationship, especially sharing passwords that could ruin your reputation if anything bad happens in your relationship. say you have a fight with your partner and yall end yall relationship and he or she decide im going to change your settings, like your password and lock you out of your facebook what are you going to do? they could also write mean things about you on the website or they could share your password with anybody. that is why i believe you should have some type of limits to a relationship and not just give everything away at once unless you are married. but these teenagers are not and they give everything they got to somebody in a short amount of time. a lot of kids are falling "in love" to easily, and most don't really know what it is for sure. some also confuse lust for love and that is not good either. i think they should try to take it slower and see if that person is really there for them. and even if you think they are don't just give them everything, make them wait

Cracking Teenagers' Online Codes

I think Dr. Boyd is a good person. she understands us teenagers and our problems. from facebook to twitter she understands that we are not doing anything wrong or to hurt or affect other people in a hurtful way on purpose. sometimes when we put lyrics of a song as a tweet or a status it is really because we are heartbroken. or sometimes we are hurt, and don't know how to express our anger. but there are some who do abuse these websites by putting inappropriate pictures or curse words on their status's. some talk to strangers around the world on the internet and sometimes they get their selfs in trouble or danger. that is why parents think we shouldn't be on these sites; but it is not all of us. Dr. Boyd understands us and knows that we are not abusing the site. i love having a facebook sometimes facebook can help me through things. when i had a rough day i get on facebook, post what i'm thinking and usually one of my close friends comment and make me feel better. i am extremely happy that Dr. Boyd is trying to get this point across to parents and guardians. that makes me see and feel like there is adults who understand what we go through and what we be talking about. even though everybody is on facebook from teenagers to elders, we all still have a good time.

Teenage love

You are never too young for love. i believe everybody needs love, affection, and someone to care for them.   when you start to hit the age where you start to look at a person in a crush type of way, you start to yearn for love. some people look for love in all the wrong places, but that all depends on what happen to you when you were younger as a child. i believe almost all students start dating by at least 16. and some are slow and enjoy it and stay wit one person at one time. others could be cheaters, or just in a relationship to be in one with no kind of feelings. people don't know the true meaning of being loving and caring anymore. especially boys all they want is sex, but that's not all boys. some boys can be nice and gentle if they really like you. but that's not only boys there are girls who can be hoes, or just have been treated so bad before that when there is a good person for you who treats you with respect sometimes you push them away or you are just not used to it so and you think you like getting treated bad because that's all you know. that is why some people turn out the way they do because when they were young they got they're heart broken and some people need more work than others, some get over it faster. but people have to learn for them self, you cant tell somebody something and expect them not to do it, even young peoples parents now and days, because some people aren't supposed to date until a certain age and wind up sneaking a couple of years early. but just because you go out with someone does not mean its love. a relationship is what you make it.

Merry Christmas!!!!!!!

Christmas is a joyful time for some people as for others not so much. some people love the holidays, they decorate, cook big meals, give and recieve gifts, and most importantly spend time with their loved ones.  but others like my mother does not like the holidays, either for financial reasons, deaths around that time of the year or even you just don't like people and want to be alone. usually there are parades, party's, get togethers, and happy times. i believe no matter what you are going through around the holidays you can be happy and forgiving and loving towards everybody. you can spend time with your family, friends, boyfriend/ girlfriend and others.